How do you get your husband not to drink alcohol?

The wives of drinking husbands know what a major disaster this is for the whole family. In addition, not only do two people who once loved each other suffer, but also their children. All dreams and plans that were built at the beginning of family life crumble. Usually, after several unsuccessful attempts to force her husband not to drink, a woman makes the only decision she considers right - to get a divorce. However, do not rush, because that person next to you was once kind, happy and loving who you fell in love with. Precisely because your husband was not always an alcoholic, it is worth helping him. There are many ways you can get your man to stop drinking. But first of all, you need to determine the cause of this disease and get rid of it. This is the only way to ensure that all methods of combating alcoholism produce the expected results.

Causes of the husband's alcoholism

Even if a drinking husband is so drunk that close people and family are pushed into the background, you shouldn't put an end to the person. If you correctly identify the causes of the disease, the addiction can be treated.

Your husband may drink alcohol for the following reasons:

1. Don't underestimate the power of inheritance. If a person's father suffered from alcoholism, then the likelihood of this disease is high for him. However, the hereditary factor in itself cannot provoke alcoholism, it requires some kind of impetus in the form of problems, problems in the family, in the drinking environment.
2. Constant problems in family life. Usually, the wives of drinking husbands had the same fathers, so they subconsciously chose a husband who was already suffering from an addiction or who had the prerequisites for it to occur. In addition, such women provoke their husbands themselves with their constant reproaches, the perpetual control, the desire for alcohol. By depriving the husband of the opportunity to be the head of the family, they are pushing him into the abyss of alcoholism, where most of these men look for an outlet and reassurance.

3. If your boyfriend or husband cannot fully satisfy themselves, it can create an addiction. Usually such people suppress feelings of dissatisfaction with life with alcohol, which creates harmful alcohol cravings.
4. Often times, great grief can be the cause of alcoholism. When the pain from losing a loved one or loved one is very severe, a man can start drinking alcohol to drown him.
5. For some men who have a hereditary predisposition to alcoholism, the type of people around them is very important. If his friends or co-workers drink alcoholic beverages often, he may become addicted over time and drink vodka regularly.
6. For some people, alcohol is an opportunity to get noticed. Usually such alcoholism is typical of teenagers, but an adult cannot be an exception.
7. Some men who consume alcohol try to drown out the emotional pain caused by problems of an intimate nature or an incurable illness.

What can a woman do?

If you want to know how to get your man to stop drinking, here are some recommendations you should follow:

• You shouldn't make scandals and blame your husband. Screaming and arguing will only make the situation worse.
• First you need to be patient and stop paying attention to your husband's alcoholism. Once you can accept its condition, it will be easier for you to focus and look for the cause. Remember everything from the first day you got drunk.
• May the house always be calm and calm, surround your husband with care and attention. If he is not rushing home after work, but is with friends for a drink, it smells warm and cozy at home, it smells like a delicious dinner. This will make your life partner rush home after work.
• Show an interest in your spouse's life and work. Include him inconspicuously in childcare and the household. However, it is important to know that repetitive and repetitive work will not help your husband stop drinking. It is important that his assignments are interesting and distract from thoughts of alcohol.

• You don't have to persuade him not to drink on the weekend. It is better to organize interesting and rich leisure activities for the whole family yourself. Spending time together in an entertainment center or outdoors will give your husband positive emotions and help you relax without alcohol. As a result, you don't have to force him not to drink as he will appreciate how good life is without alcohol.
• Before you convince your husband to stop drinking, you should reduce his contacts with drinking friends to zero. If you can guess what the holiday is coming, distract your spouse with a more tempting offer that they can't refuse.
• While convincing believers not to drink, it should be remembered that some men drink for lack of hobbies and banal boredom. If you find an interesting hobby or hobby for your spouse, he will stop drinking himself.

Usually you can convince your husband not to drink and you can use our recommendations for normal household drunkenness or if a person suffers from alcoholism in the first stage. With the help of our tips, you can draw your spouse's attention to other aspects of life, which will help them forget about addiction. However, when the disease has progressed and reached more serious stages, it will be very difficult to get a man to stop drinking. In this case, it is better to seek help from specialists.

Rules of conduct with an alcoholic husband

If you want to understand how a woman can get her man to stop drinking without the help of specialists, then start with yourself. Your correct behavior will create fertile ground for overcoming addiction:

1. Stop patronizing the believers and do not solve the problems that have arisen with him because of his own drunkenness. Otherwise, your concern will become something ordinary and a must for him, and in such a situation he simply doesn't want to change anything. Do not apologize and apologize to friends and management for their bad behavior. He has to solve these problems himself because they were caused by his fault. You don't have to put him to bed and undress when he comes home drunk. Let him sleep everywhere so he could assess how drunk he was in the morning.
2. When a woman tries to force her husband to stop drinking, he often blackmailed her by leaving the family. Do not pay attention to such threats, because the drinker is simply afraid of making important cardinal decisions. This is common blackmail, nothing more.
3. Usually, the person who makes you stop drinking thinks about the drinking partner's needs in life so often that he forgets himself. That is not right. Do not stop taking care of yourself, go about your favorite hobbies. This can help build your spouse's self-esteem. Then the drinker does not want to lose his beautiful, self-confident wife and can decide for himself to stop drinking.
4. If your spouse has a severe hangover or withdrawal symptoms, you shouldn't buy them a bottle of beer to drink. At this point, you have the option to get him to stop drinking. But before you can persuade your spouse to give up alcohol, offer your help and use home remedies or medication to help get rid of the abstinence. In this state, a person will agree to any help and will agree to anything.
5. When the believer is sober, speak seriously about alcohol addiction treatment. Do not accept his promise to stop drinking. Tell him that you will only stay with him when he begins to recover from his addiction.

Home treatment

When you have found a way to force your husband not to drink, you need help, because, to begin with, desire alone is not enough, you need to overcome psychological addiction. The following methods can be used to combat addiction:

• Drug. Even though we're not talking about the injection or ampoule coding method, it is worth consulting your doctor before taking any specific pills or drops for alcoholism. The thing is, each drug has its own contraindications. That is why it is so important to know the condition of the patient's body. Only a doctor can choose an effective drug that will help her husband stop drinking and will not negatively affect the body.
• With harder coding methods, an ampoule with a drug is inserted under the skin, which either causes an alcohol intolerance or suppresses the feeling of pleasure when taking an alcoholic drink. Such coding is only performed by a narcologist with the written consent of the patient. The coding time can be between 6 months and 5 years. The procedure can be carried out three times. If the coding was carried out with a drug that causes alcohol intolerance, the patient can experience serious health problems (including death) even with a low dose of alcohol.

• Hypnotic coding is suitable for suggestible patients. It is very important that you agree to this procedure yourself and fully trust the doctor. Several sessions are required to have a lasting impact.
• Folk methods. This includes not only herbal treatment, but also the use of various conspiracies, prayers. For such treatment, you can turn to traditional healers or perform procedures and rituals yourself.
• Sometimes acupuncture is used to create an aversion to alcohol. By influencing bioactive points, a persistent aversion to alcohol is formed. For treatment, you need to go through quite a number of sessions. This technique is particularly effective in preventing relapse.